Rachael Sade's Blog

Angry Black Woman: Media Stereotyping of Black Women

Black women have a very interesting relationship with the media. For many years, there was a lack of representation of black women on television, but there has been a shift…

Romantic Muses

All You Need is Love and Then Some

It takes more than love to make a relationship work. The older I grow, the more I realize I have been lied to. All those Mills & Boon romantic novels…

Romantic Muses

He Gave Up Himself for Her

I am not married. I feel a need to make this declaration, although I doubt it has much bearing on my perspective. I can’t wait for the man who will…

Altars and Agendas

African Spirituality vs Christianity: Can We Serve Two Masters?

Can African culture and Christian faith truly coexist? In this debut episode of Altars and Agendas, I dive into the tension between honoring our heritage and staying rooted in Christ.

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Altars and Agendas

Single, Saved, and Choosing Motherhood: When Faith Meets Fertility

What happens when a single Christian woman wants a child—but marriage doesn’t come? In this post, we explore faith, fertility, and the women choosing IVF without apology.

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Altars and Agendas

Fearful Yoruba, Fearless Igbo? Let’s Talk.

When Pastor Bolaji Idowu called the Yoruba race fearful and praised the Igbo for being bold, it stirred controversy. But beneath the backlash lies a deeper cultural tension: is Yoruba caution a strength—or…

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Altars and Agendas

Are Women Desperate, or Are Men Delusional?

Are men really the prize, or have we just turned love into a competitive sport? In this episode of Altars and Agendas, I unpack gender roles, cultural pressure, and the myth of female…

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