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Altars and Agendas

“All Men Cheat”: The Lie We Tell Women About Marriage

“All men cheat.” It’s one of the most dangerous lies women are told about marriage. This cultural script normalizes betrayal, excuses men, and silences women. But the truth is different:…

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Love is Only The Beginning

A couple of months back when I wrote the blog post All You Need is Love and Then Some, I did not realize just how true those words are. The…

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Altars and Agendas

Why Do We Still Treat Single Mothers Like They’re Damaged?

Okafor’s Law isn’t just a cultural myth—it’s a dangerous mindset that shames single mothers and excuses absent fathers. In this post, we unpack how this belief system devalues women, fuels…

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    African Spirituality vs Christianity: Can We Serve Two Masters?

    Can African culture and Christian faith truly coexist? In this debut episode of Altars and Agendas, I dive into the tension between honoring our heritage and staying rooted in Christ.

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    Single, Saved, and Choosing Motherhood: When Faith Meets Fertility

    What happens when a single Christian woman wants a child—but marriage doesn’t come? In this post, we explore faith, fertility, and the women choosing IVF without apology.

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    Fearful Yoruba, Fearless Igbo? Let’s Talk.

    When Pastor Bolaji Idowu called the Yoruba race fearful and praised the Igbo for being bold, it stirred controversy. But beneath the backlash lies a deeper cultural tension: is Yoruba caution a strength—or…

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    Are Women Desperate, or Are Men Delusional?

    Are men really the prize, or have we just turned love into a competitive sport? In this episode of Altars and Agendas, I unpack gender roles, cultural pressure, and the myth of female…

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