Altars and Agendas

“All men cheat.” It’s one of the most dangerous lies women are told about marriage. This cultural script normalizes betrayal, excuses men, and silences women. But the truth is different: cheating is not destiny—it’s a choice.

When Temi Otedola married Mr. Eazi, the wedding became more than a celebration of love. It sparked a cultural debate about wealth, modesty, and the expectations society places on women.

Are intelligent, self-aware women less likely to marry unless they make themselves smaller? We explore the expectations placed on women and why marriage should never require abandoning who you are.

Another tragedy. Another headline. But this time, children were gunned down during a Catholic school Mass in Minneapolis. When even our altars and classrooms are no longer safe, we must ask: what have we chosen to worship instead?

Toke Makinwa shares her IVF journey at 40. Miracle or misstep? Explore faith, culture, and motherhood in this Altars and Agendas episode.

Is marriage a need or just a want? The Bible says marriage is honorable, but Paul also called singleness a gift.

Love sits in the tension between acceptance and correction. This episode of Altars and Agendas explores when love affirms, when it challenges, and how attraction, identity, and culture shape what we expect in marriage.

Marriage and submission have become some of the most debated topics of our time. Is submission outdated, oppressive, or essential for harmony?

Can African culture and Christian faith truly coexist? In this debut episode of Altars and Agendas, I dive into the tension between honoring our heritage and staying rooted in Christ.

What happens when a single Christian woman wants a child—but marriage doesn’t come? In this post, we explore faith, fertility, and the women choosing IVF without apology.