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Romantic Muses

The Helpmate: For Singles and Married

I have been so focused on vlogging this month, I almost forgot to write. But writing remains my foremost passion and I have a monthly commitment to write at least…

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Romantic Muses

Is It Better To Love With Your Head Than To Fall In Love?

“I love you” “I’m in love with you” there’s a small difference, the heart. Love is a choice but it’s not always that clean-cut. After seeing a few people completely…

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Romantic Muses

When the Thrill is Gone

“What about mad love and undying passion?” “Affection and comfortable lust are better.” Vanessa Grant, If You Loved me. I was reading a romance novel when I came across these…

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    Sexual Compatibility and the Christian Couple: Should We Be Worried?

    What if you wait until marriage, only to find out the sex isn’t great? For Christian couples, sexual compatibility can feel like a silent fear. In this post, we unpack what it really…

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  • Altars and Agendas

    Why Do We Still Treat Single Mothers Like They’re Damaged?

    Okafor’s Law isn’t just a cultural myth—it’s a dangerous mindset that shames single mothers and excuses absent fathers. In this post, we unpack how this belief system devalues women, fuels entitlement, and why…

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    Fatal Attachment: When Love Becomes a Death Sentence

    We’ve normalized obsession in the name of romance. But control is not commitment. Jealousy isn’t passion. And love should never feel like a cage. If your relationship requires you to shrink, to suffer,…

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    Who Gets to Decide What’s Gospel? The Gaise Baba Controversy

    Gaise Baba’s viral song “I Have Decided to Follow Jesus” has sparked controversy, with some critics saying it’s “just vibes” and not real gospel. But what even is gospel music? Is it about…

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