Rachael Sade's Blog

Can You Be a Christian… and Still Desire Kink?

Can you love Jesus and still explore desires that don’t fit the typical “church-approved” view of sex? For many Christians, navigating faith and desire feels like a constant tension—especially when…

Altars and Agendas

If You Love Me, You Will Accept Me As I Am

Love sits in the tension between acceptance and correction. This episode of Altars and Agendas explores when love affirms, when it challenges, and how attraction, identity, and culture shape what…

Romantic Muses

Why Do Marriages Fail?

Questions like this often plague me as an unmarried woman looking to fall in love and be with that person forever, but here goes reality again, ever after often has…

Altars and Agendas

When Faith Meets Science: Toke Makinwa’s IVF Journey Sparks Debate

Toke Makinwa shares her IVF journey at 40. Miracle or misstep? Explore faith, culture, and motherhood in this Altars and Agendas episode.

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Altars and Agendas

Is It Better Not to Marry? A Biblical Perspective

Is marriage a need or just a want? The Bible says marriage is honorable, but Paul also called singleness a gift. In 1 Corinthians 7, he reminds us that while marriage sanctifies desire…

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Altars and Agendas

If You Love Me, You Will Accept Me As I Am

Love sits in the tension between acceptance and correction. This episode of Altars and Agendas explores when love affirms, when it challenges, and how attraction, identity, and culture shape what we expect in…

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Altars and Agendas

Submission, Marriage, and the Truth We Don’t Want to Hear

Marriage and submission have become some of the most debated topics of our time. Is submission outdated, oppressive, or essential for harmony? In this post, I explore the cultural shifts, faith-based truths, and…

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