Rachael Sade's Blog

Is It Better To Love With Your Head Than To Fall In Love?

“I love you” “I’m in love with you” there’s a small difference, the heart. Love is a choice but it’s not always that clean-cut. After seeing a few people completely…

Romantic Muses

Does True Love Exist?

Does true love exist? This question I pondered as I watched a clip of an old Caucasian couple who have been married for 79 years. A friend had sent me…

Culture Muses

The Year I Came To America: An Experiment in Memoirs

The year I came to America began at the American embassy in Lagos. It is one of the many memories of my last days in Nigeria I recall vividly. We…

Romantic Muses

The End of One Love is The Beginning of Another

I saw a celebratory dance move a friend posted on his social media status and he captioned it “after a serious heartbreak that left me introverted for 2 months”. I responded with a…

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Romantic Muses

Love is Not a Feeling. Love is an Act.

I was recently in a room full of young people who unanimously agreed that love is not a good reason to get married. I recall a particular young lady actually saying, I will…

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Romantic Muses

“Differences in Personality” : A New Divorce Lingo?

I am a huge Korean Drama fan. They have been my companion since teenage-hood, helping to keep boredom at bay and filling my heads with images of what the bond between a man…

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Romantic Muses

Dear Future Husband: You Just Haven’t Met Me Yet

Dear Future Husband, I once read in a book that the people we meet at the wrong time are actually the wrong people and the right people are timeless. Looking back on all…

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