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Give It A Chance
I’m excited to announce that I finally finished my first book on love and relationships, set to launch by the end of this year. Stay tuned for more details. A discuss that ensued between me and a dear friend after I initially announced the book launch made me realize just how much more there is to learn about relationships. I was in fact tempted to go back and include some more lessons that I’ve learned since I completed the book. For instance, I realized I did not write about how some men deceive and use women in their youthful days, only to suffer the repercussions of it in their future…
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The Helpmate: For Singles and Married
I have been so focused on vlogging this month, I almost forgot to write. But writing remains my foremost passion and I have a monthly commitment to write at least one post. So, my faithful readers can expect to see that sustained no matter what. No matter how busy I get, there will always be a monthly blog post. That being said, I have been thinking about marriage lately (although it remains a constant feature in my sphere of thoughts), I am thinking about it more than ever before. The more I think about it the more I question if truly I am ready for marriage. Yes, I have read…
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What Makes Marriage Worth It?
May is such a special month for me. It’s the month in which I am reminded of just how fast time is moving as I draw closer to old age. Time takes on a new significance for me, as I am reminded of how little of it I have to accomplish some of the feats that are expected of me before it’s too late. I’m sure we all have ventures that we want to undertake before we reach a certain age or before we die. Be it ventures that we ourselves choose or ones that are chosen for us. For most of us single women and men, marriage is the…
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A Letter to Her Lover: Love is Not Enough
Dear Love, If only love was all it took to make it work, then we wouldn’t need patience, kindness, faith, endurance and perseverance. There will be no assumptions that I will meet your needs and you’ll meet mine. We’ll just come together to stay together with motives devoid of ego. Not needing assurance, a sense of security and comfort because all we need is love. We’d expect nothing in return for all we give because love has no expectations. I would not expect you to call me back because I called you. I would not expect you to support me because I support you. I would not expect you to…
