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Taking Feminism Too Far

I was recently engaged in a casual conversation with a reader who had seen my “About” page and thought it was unfair for me to refer to myself as an “occasional…

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Why Are Black Women Not Getting Married?

Why is there so much societal pressure on black women to get married, as if it is their fault that they are not getting married? It seems perfectly rational to…

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My Complicated Relationship with Feminism   

Feminist: a person who believes in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes. ― Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, We Should All Be Feminists I was a child when I first…

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    Sexual Compatibility and the Christian Couple: Should We Be Worried?

    What if you wait until marriage, only to find out the sex isn’t great? For Christian couples, sexual compatibility can feel like a silent fear. In this post, we unpack what it really…

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    Why Do We Still Treat Single Mothers Like They’re Damaged?

    Okafor’s Law isn’t just a cultural myth—it’s a dangerous mindset that shames single mothers and excuses absent fathers. In this post, we unpack how this belief system devalues women, fuels entitlement, and why…

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    Fatal Attachment: When Love Becomes a Death Sentence

    We’ve normalized obsession in the name of romance. But control is not commitment. Jealousy isn’t passion. And love should never feel like a cage. If your relationship requires you to shrink, to suffer,…

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    Who Gets to Decide What’s Gospel? The Gaise Baba Controversy

    Gaise Baba’s viral song “I Have Decided to Follow Jesus” has sparked controversy, with some critics saying it’s “just vibes” and not real gospel. But what even is gospel music? Is it about…

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