Rachael Sade's Blog

This too is America

We are artists, we paint pictures of gold and pearl laid streets. We are writers with the most descriptive and convincing words of persuasion. We are grout in the making,…

Culture Muses

I Am An African Woman

“Don’t call yourself a Nigerian woman, you’re in America,” was a piece of advice I received from someone who had read a blog of mine where I mentioned being a Nigerian. It…

Romantic Muses

Why Do Marriages Fail?

Questions like this often plague me as an unmarried woman looking to fall in love and be with that person forever, but here goes reality again, ever after often has…

Romantic Muses

The End of One Love is The Beginning of Another

I saw a celebratory dance move a friend posted on his social media status and he captioned it “after a serious heartbreak that left me introverted for 2 months”. I responded with a…

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Romantic Muses

Love is Not a Feeling. Love is an Act.

I was recently in a room full of young people who unanimously agreed that love is not a good reason to get married. I recall a particular young lady actually saying, I will…

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Romantic Muses

“Differences in Personality” : A New Divorce Lingo?

I am a huge Korean Drama fan. They have been my companion since teenage-hood, helping to keep boredom at bay and filling my heads with images of what the bond between a man…

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Romantic Muses

Dear Future Husband: You Just Haven’t Met Me Yet

Dear Future Husband, I once read in a book that the people we meet at the wrong time are actually the wrong people and the right people are timeless. Looking back on all…

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