Rachael Sade's Blog

Why Do We Still Treat Single Mothers Like They’re Damaged?

Okafor’s Law isn’t just a cultural myth—it’s a dangerous mindset that shames single mothers and excuses absent fathers. In this post, we unpack how this belief system devalues women, fuels…

Romantic Muses

Love Yourself

Vlogging is my newest passion, but I do not want to lose my first love, writing. Besides, there are some thoughts that can only be expressed through written words. But…

Romantic Muses

The Pursuit of Wholeness

In the pursuit of wholeness, we must reach within to rediscover who we are and align ourselves with our God given purpose and calling. This, many fail to do and…

Culture Muses

Expectations of a Conservative African Community

I am not my hair I am not this skin I am not your expectations no no I am not my hair I am not this skin I am a soul that lives…

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Culture Muses

A Pageant That Celebrates Virginity

I was visiting one of those Nigerian news site one day, I don’t recall what site it had been, but I saw something that was very interesting. I saw a photograph of a…

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Romantic Muses

Are You Cheating On Me?

Reflecting on Beyoncé’s Lemonade album and the whole speculation on whether or not Jay Z cheated on her, I began to wonder if there are two types of women. Those who leave when…

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Romantic Muses

To Revenge or Not To Revenge? – A Short Story

Folake was committed to doing something crazy and I am supposed to dissuade her. It was not really unlike her to come up with very ridiculous ideas that were never carried out. But…

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