Rachael Sade's Blog

Can You Be a Christian… and Still Desire Kink?

Can you love Jesus and still explore desires that don’t fit the typical “church-approved” view of sex? For many Christians, navigating faith and desire feels like a constant tension—especially when…

Romantic Muses

Where is Mr. Right?

I love topics like this because as I have often mentioned, I’m a hopeless romantic. So let’s talk about Mr. Right, “he’s the one, I just know it. I can…

Romantic Muses

The Pursuit of Wholeness

In the pursuit of wholeness, we must reach within to rediscover who we are and align ourselves with our God given purpose and calling. This, many fail to do and…

Culture Muses

Expectations of a Conservative African Community

I am not my hair I am not this skin I am not your expectations no no I am not my hair I am not this skin I am a soul that lives…

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Culture Muses

A Pageant That Celebrates Virginity

I was visiting one of those Nigerian news site one day, I don’t recall what site it had been, but I saw something that was very interesting. I saw a photograph of a…

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Romantic Muses

Are You Cheating On Me?

Reflecting on Beyoncé’s Lemonade album and the whole speculation on whether or not Jay Z cheated on her, I began to wonder if there are two types of women. Those who leave when…

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Romantic Muses

To Revenge or Not To Revenge? – A Short Story

Folake was committed to doing something crazy and I am supposed to dissuade her. It was not really unlike her to come up with very ridiculous ideas that were never carried out. But…

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