• Muses

    While You’re Waiting, Time is Going!

    The month of August is a peculiar month to me because this was the month about a year ago when I finally decided to put my hand on the plow and never look back. I understood I had a gifting in writing and I knew I had to use it. I had such big visions and dreams of what I wanted, but limited resources to effectuate them. However, I just could not wait till everything was picture-perfect, because while waiting, time is going. If I’d kept procrastinating, I may never have gotten started! The same thing goes for the vlog, when I made the decision to launch my vlog on…

  • Intimates

    Why Am I Still Single?

    Is a question many of us single ladies are asking ourselves. Some women have already resigned themselves to the fate of solitariness. They have settled for endless dating that never yield permanency, sex with strangers now and then, an empty crib with nothing but cats to snuggle up with, and marriage to a career that will never bring full fulfillment. But some of us want more! We want biceps and triceps to cuddle up with in bed every night (not cats!). We want commitment, we want love, we want relationship, we want to share not just our bodies but our minds and deepest thoughts with another person and we want…

  • Love Tips

    Love Yourself

    Vlogging is my newest passion, but I do not want to lose my first love, writing. Besides, there are some thoughts that can only be expressed through written words. But I’m having a lot of fun experimenting with both spoken and written words and figuring out which is more effective in getting my message across. For most readers who have been following my blog, by now you already know that I’m quite passionate about this particular area of our lives, relationships. Therefore, my vlog and most of my blog posts are about relationships. I am invested in seeing people get it right. Why does my generation seem to always struggle…

  • Culture

    Angry Black Woman: Media Stereotyping of Black Women

    Black women have a very interesting relationship with the media. For many years, there was a lack of representation of black women on television, but there has been a shift over the last couple of years whereby more and more black women are being represented on television. We can finally say there’s progress when women like Kerry Washington is the lead actress on one of the most watched shows on television Scandal, or when a middle-aged woman like Viola Davis is playing the role of a seductive and charismatic lawyer on the hit TV series How to Get Away with Murder. So, who cares that one is a gold digger and…