As I pen down my last post for the year, I can’t help but think about my readers, and with a grateful heart, I say thank you. For some of us, 2019 has been a memorable year. We experienced a roller coaster of emotions, mostly relationship related. We experienced great joy and great sadness, fulfillment and disappointment, love and heartbreak. And then for some of us, love again. As for me, I was found, and I found myself, which makes 2020 a much-anticipated year. I look forward to exploring my newly discovered self. There are some life events that are beyond our power, some that we cannot undo and some…

Reflecting on past relationships, I asked myself, did they ever love me? Did they pretend to love me? Were they confused too, thinking they loved me but actually never did? Or did they know from the start that they did not love me, but still went ahead and deliberately hoodwinked me into believing they did? These questions, I pondered as in lay in bed one September morning thinking about the past 3 years my life and how it has gone through a number of relationships that are today no more. How could love do that to you? I wondered. When I think about what they did, I just can’t wrap…